Enough is Enough

Okay where do i start? I have two daughters and they are causing me two totally different challenges. Okay i will start with Lyndsay as her behaviour is less complicated. Last week I caught Lyndsay my 11 year old Lyndsay smoking in her room. I didn't catch in the act just the smell of smoke and a still lit cigarette outside her window. I told her it is illegal for her to smoke. Then yesterday while I was performing my boot scooting dances in front of the whole town at the Merredin Show she STOLE $25 out of my bag. She just does not seem to have a consequence thought pattern at all and that is really scary as it is the thought of the consequences that will stop a child doing something wrong.

Now Shaye is having a really bad time emotionally yeah I know she is 13 and all but she is being bullied and feels rejected. I can sympathise with her immensely as I was a total reject in school and the only friends I ever had used and abused me. So yesterday at the show one of the local bully girls threw a water bottle at Shaye and then the other local bully threatened to smash her head in so she got a ride home with my uncle because she had been crying for an hour. She also informed me that they call her a skank and a slut which is neither and at school when they see her they are like errr yuck its shaye. I mean how fricking childish is that? The only redeeming thing in all this is that when I was speaking to her about when i was in high school, I told her that i use to think I deserved to be treated like that and she said that was really dumb. Then while she was home some of her fair weather friends came over while I wasn't home. When I got home they had thrown the clean washing around trashed Shayes room and thrown the boys lego all over the place. At midnight one of the kids showed up making a hell of a racket. He then went into Shayes room where she was sleeping and was being really noisy. Shaye got up and went off at him because her brothers and sister and mum were asleep and he was being rude. Her supposed girlfriend turned around and told her to SHUT UP. She is lucky she is a minor or I would have slapped the little bitch. Anyway I got out of bed and went off at them telling them I was sick of the way they treat my daughter and my house they show no regard to others in the house or Shayes feelings. I then told them to get the fuck out of my house and not come back. I didn't even care it was 1am as they showed no regard for anyone so I felt hardly inclined to show them any concern what so ever. Then Shaye told me one of the girl sent herself 9 dollars of credit off Shayes phone. Shaye was saying I didn't have to kick them out then it could have waited till morning.